"Love when you are ready, not when you’re lonely."
the most accurate thing i have ever come across on this website..
Sex should not only be about the man . Sex should not only be about the woman . Neither should be thinking of themselves during sex; how quick they can get off, how dominant/aggressive they can be, who’s the best, etc . BOTH should be thinking only about pleasing their significant other . Sex is…
Sex should not only be about the man . Sex should not only be about the woman . Neither should be thinking of themselves during sex; how quick they can get off, how dominant/aggressive they can be, who’s the best, etc . BOTH should be thinking only about pleasing their significant other . Sex is NOT a woman laying there while her man has his way with her, finishes, and it’s over . Sex should one, be a bit lengthy, if done the right way . And two, should be fulfilling to both parties . A man should know his woman, literally inside and out . He should know his woman’s contours, her weaknesses, her dislikes, her limits; her body’s functions, reactions, & language . Likewise, a woman should know her man’s weaknesses, dislikes, limits, turn-ons, fantasies, body functions, reactions, & language . You must know how your man/woman operates sexually . If you are only in it to get a nut, you will never know these things about them . You must take the time, in the beginning stages of dating & sex, to learn these things . Because if it has been over a year and you are lost on the anatomy of your man/woman, you have not done things the right way . You must build an strong emotional connection first, then a strong physical connection . If you do not love the person you’re having sex with, chances are you are only focused on yourself in the act . If you do not feel a sort of electric connection between each other, chances are you have not built that physical connection . Your partner should not only turn you on physically, but mentally as well; stimulating in every way . Good sex consists of focusing on the other person; being selfless . Good sex is doing whatever it takes (within your means) to please the other person and to get them to their climax . Good sex is not just laying there, but actively being involved in the intercourse . Good sex is not mediocrity, same positions, same locations, same routine . It is going beyond those things and exceeding expectations . My advice is to simply take the time to learn your partner, thoroughly . Establish strong connections . Stop being selfish and thinking about only one’s needs . Your partner will thank you, and your ego will skyrocket .
“Knowing that he wouldn’t be there for her wedding, a terminally ill father walked his 11-year-old down the ‘aisle’ years early with the pastor sweetly pronouncing them ‘daddy and daughter’.
Jim Zetz, 62, from Murrieta, California, who has stage 4 pancreatic cancer, proudly held his daughter, Josie’s hand during their backyard ceremony on March 14 and placed a sparkling ring on her index finger.”
Well I’m depressed now
You must learn her.
You must know the reason why she is silent. You must trace her weakest spots. You must write to her. You must remind her that you are there. You must know how long it takes for her to give up. You must be there to hold her when she is about to.
You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.
And, this is how you keep her.
This is How you Lose Her
, Junot Diaz (via kza
I don't mean no disrespect by this at all, but how old is your bf? He looks a lot older…
He is . He’s in his 40s . Accept it or don’t